As far as I can remember when I became a Christian, the issue of sex and sexuality has also be a hot topic. Most sermons I heard on the subject was on why Christians should not have premarital sex and that was the end of it. Now a days, the talk in our churches have gone from sex within marriage to why God's standard of sexuality is pure and acceptable in one man, one woman covenant marriage relationship.
Christopher Yuan takes a look at God's standard of sexuality, the meaning of marriage, and this applies to the gospel in his latest book,
Holy Sexuality and the Gospel. Yuan introduces his own story of how God transformed him and helped him embrace the Biblical view of sexuality, which you see more about in his first book,
Out of a Far Country: A Gay Son's Journey to God. A Broken Mother's Search for Hope, which he co-wrote with his mother, Angela. Yuan shows us that we are God's image bearers who reflect the image of God. God's image bearers are the ones who desire to showcase God in everything they do and everything they are.
Yuan wrote that the image of God is essential to understanding what human sexuality is and who we are as human beings. Yuan stresses that the image of God is show who His image bearers who are male and female which brings us the issue of gender. The Bible shows only two genders, male and female who are created in the image of God. Regarding the issue of same-sex attraction, Yuan addresses it with grace and truth without coming across as one who is condemning those struggling with it. He does say there is nothing innocent about this temptation. He wrote that same-sex desires are not to played with. They should be resisted and mortified which is sexual immorality of all kinds should be put to death as Colossians 3:5 tells us.
In the issue of marriage, Yuan warns that can be used as an idol if one is not careful. Marriage is an expression of love, however, Yuan wrote, that highest ideal of love is God Himself. Marriage was given to us by God and should be used in service to our spouse. Marriage is a reflection of Christ's love for the church. Yuan then addresses the theology of marriage which is more than a man and woman saying, "I do" on their wedding day. It is a covenant between a man and a woman to remain faithful to each other and marriage is when a man and a woman become one flesh.
Yuan does address the issue of singleness. Many may think singleness are some form of taboo. Many singles feel they must be outside of God's will because they are not married. Nothing could be further from the truth. Singleness is a gift from the Lord. Singles will be able to have more time to serve and do things for the Lord, not that married people don't already. Some even choose singleness for various reasons. For some singles, it is not forever. If you are single, do not give up on your desire to marry, but use this time wisely.
Yuan tackles some tough issues in this book and does them with clarity. He speaks the truth in love without pointing an accusing finger. He always points back to Jesus and does not compromise the Bible.
Thanks
Waterbrook Multinomah for letting me review this book.
